Lately, when I change my 1-year-old son's diaper, he reaches for his penis. Is that normal? Is that masturbation?
– Janice

Many concerned parents call their doctors because their kids touch their genitals during diaper changes or their baby boys have frequent erections. They're reassured that these behaviors are perfectly normal — even the youngest children naturally explore their bodies.

How you react — your voice, the words you use, your facial expressions — is one of your child's first lessons in sexuality. By responding without anger, surprise, or disapproving words, you teach your child that this curiosity about his body is just a normal part of life. Toilet teaching is another great opportunity to reinforce accepting attitudes about your child's anatomy.

For more information, check out this article:
Understanding Early Sexual Development

Reviewed by: Steven Dowshen, MD
Date reviewed: January 2007

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